[Azmaria Hendric]

This topic was created back in the day (I don’t know exactly when) but it has graced Nuneworld’s doorstep once before. I reason for this thread being created, is to help other Nuneworld members with any problems they might be facing, whether it be relationships, social, racial or gender specific. Where here to help you however we can! (Besides I like to help out others )

So whenever you’re feeling down and out, defeated, depressed, sad or just angry. Please don’t hesitate for a second to come to this thread for help. It’s what it’s there for.

I’ll start us off, since I created this awesome thread obviously!

Q. How can I make up for my past mistakes? Because I think it’s already destroyed everything I care about and I want to right those wrongs however I can.

Any suggestions, advice and opinions on this very important matter will be greatly appreciated by me. You have my thanks on this issue.

[Batman]

This all depends on what your mistakes were, however an optimistic attitude will help. If you have hurt someone apologise, that is all you can do. If from there they still hate you then you can't do much else so shrug your shoulders, put a smile on and continue your life. What I am trying to do is lead a more fulfilling life by doing my best to be a good person. I have done quite a lot of bad things in my life so I stop doing these things.

Anyway my girlfriend is going to another country next year and I'll rarely see her again, we will probably end up breaking up (country is other side of world.) It is quite depressing at times, we are enjoying the time we have left. There's not much advice that can really be given I guess I'll have to take up a hobby or keep loads of mates round me afterwards to keep entertained until I'm ready to move on. I probably won't get in a relationship again, just stay single maybe hook up with a few girls.

[Azmaria Hendric]

This all depends on what your mistakes were, however an optimistic attitude will help. If you have hurt someone apologise, that is all you can do. If from there they still hate you then you can't do much else so shrug your shoulders, put a smile on and continue your life.

Yeah that's about all I can do really, that or have a massive grudge against them for the rest of my natural life.
I have apologized for sure, and it was all real apologies, but I have just wrecked peoples lives so much.
I just end up feeling really guilty all the time. How do I fix the constant, nagging guilt on my conscience?

You should end up with another girl eventually, the decision is ultimately yours in the end to make.
But you know from exp, how happy a girl can make you and being single is for boring people dude.
Don't be like them, you won't feel good for it let me tell you right now.

[Batman]

Everyone gets guilty moments and bad thoughts, it's just some people don't get effected by them. Think all the thoughts and emotions you go through, laughter, good memories, enjoyment, happy feelings so you are bound to get negative ones as well. The past is the past. Added to that whenever you get a bad feeling of guilt just say in your head "yeah whatever I'm a bad person, deal with it" and eventually your mind won't bug you as much.

[Azmaria Hendric]

Everyone gets guilty moments and bad thoughts, it's just some people don't get effected by them. Think all the thoughts and emotions you go through, laughter, good memories, enjoyment, happy feelings so you are bound to get negative ones as well. The past is the past. Added to that whenever you get a bad feeling of guilt just say in your head "yeah whatever I'm a bad person, deal with it" and eventually your mind won't bug you as much.

I'd think I'd have to do a lot more than that. Guilt eats up at me like anything else.
I have done a lot of unforgivable things, and I have to atone for my sins, all of them.